Azdwaji Zindagi

No Questions Answer 19035 salam jo log shadi kar kay uk aatey hein.un ka aik to pakistan mein (shadi) islami nikah ho choka hota hay. doosra woh uk mein aa kar rigistration office mein ja kar register karatey hein. jiss ka unhein certificate milta hey keh yeh dono miyan bewi hein. ab agr dono mein halaat kharab hotey hein. khawand chahata hey keh bewi ko talaq dey. bewi talaq leyna nahein chahati. magar khawand ki ita-at be nahein karti. aksar auqaat azdawaji ta-aloq par be razi nahein hoti. mard chahata hey keh aisi bewi ko rakhnay say kia faida. jo ussay ghunahon say bachnay par madad na karey. un kay bachey be hein. to kia agar mard bewi ko uk mein rigistered hooee shadi say divore dey dey. jab keh woh dena na chahata ho. to kia talaq ho ja-ay gi. aur aik ho gi. do hon gi. ya teen. aik islami talaq dey kar pehley hi rojoo ho choki hay. bachon ki waja sey. ab sirf do talaqon ka haq hay. kion keh uk ka qanoon hay. keh jab tak uk ki talaq na dee ja-ay. pakistan mein shadi kar kay uk mein bewi ko nahein laa skatey. iss li-ay uk ki talaq zaroori hay. zaroori nahein keh pakistan mein shadi ki hi ja-ay. khawand bewi register honaey say deegar kai qanooni moa-milaat be hotey hein. jin sey khawand jaan chorana chahata hey. yeh halaat taqreeban 15 saal say hein. khawand ko shak hey keh bewi ussay neechay laganey kay li-ay iss tara ki harkatein karti hay. ya ussey ghunahon mein mubtala karney kay li-ay. keh jab yeh khod ghunah karey ga. to mujay namaz waghaira ka na kahey ga. kissi bemari wagaira ki waja sey nahein. ab tak khawand bachon kay mostaqbil aur unhein deeni taleem deney kay li-ay inn logo kay zulm bardashat karta raha. magar ussay bachon par be mokamal ikhtiyaar na dia gaiya. khawand apney bachon ko deen ka mobaligh banana chahata tha. magar uk kay mahol mein. woh yeh bazi haar choka hey. bachon ki ammi aur susraal ki waja sey. aaj tak agar woh bewi kay saath tha to bachon ki waja sey. ab be woh bachon kay haqooq ada karney ki poori koshish karey ga...iss li-ay ab ussey kafiron key molk mein rehnay say be nafrat ho choki hay. woh shadi karey na karey. iss ka fesla nahein kia. laikin bewi ki taraf sey zehni pareshani sey nijat chahata hey. keh inn zehni pareshaion ney uss ka jeena moshkil kar dia hey. rahey ga to woh uk hi mein magar bewi sey alaida rehna chahata hey. aur ab bewi ko uss key zulm ki saza dena chahata hey. jiss ney khawand ki zindgi, bachon ki zindgi tabah kar key rakh dee. khawand ko jan booj kar bay amal ban-nay par majboor karti rahi. aur bachon ko jahannam ka eendhan banati rahi. apni jaan jahannam say bachana sub sey pelay zaroori hey. iss li-ay apney aap ko to bachanay ki koshish ki ja-ay. to kia inn halaat mein agar uk ki talaq de ja-ay. to islami talaq be ho ja-ay gi ya nahein. Answer 18985 Muhtram Janab Mufti sb; Asslaamoalikum; Mera Sawal aap se yeh hai keh Jab hum apni bivi se piar or muhabbat kartey hain to jo mada sa jisey Mazi kehtey hain nikalta hai kia us se libas ganda ho jata hai or kia un kapdon se namaz ho jati hai. Kia us mada ko dho kar unhi kapdon mein namaz ada kar saktey hain. Doosra yeh keh kia Ramzan shareef mein hum apni bivi se rozey ki halat mein aisa piar muhabbat kar saktey hain kia rozey mein Mazi nikal aye to roza to nahin toot jata. Nadeem Rafiq Attari Answer 8106 Assalmualikum mufti saheb, main bangalore, india ka rehnawala hoon. Mai filwaqat bahut he pareshan hoon, inshaallah allah ke baad aap ke upar pura bharosa hai ki meri muskil hul hogi. Shadi se pehle mere aur meri biwi ke 4 saal talukhaat they, Meri biwi ne mujhe pasand kiya tha aur shadi ki baat bhi meri biwi ne mujhse ki. mai shaadi ka faisla lene se pehle mai kuch shart rakhe ki meri maa 22 saal se bimar hai aur use ek gilaas paani bhi lene taklef hai aur aap ko uski kidmat karni padegi. Meri biwi ne badi aasani ke saat kha ki zarror karungi. is 4 saal darmiyan main uske ghar kaee martaba aata jaata tha is baat ko meri saas ko bhi patatha. Mai aur meri bewi beinteha mohabbat karne lage aur mai use bahut chahane laga.Meri sasural waloon ne shaadi ke liye zoor diya. Shadi se pehle mere aur meri biwi ke kuch galat kaam nahi hua. Allah ke marzi ke saath hamari shaadi huei. Shaadi ke kuch din baad hee mere aur mere biwi ke befuzul jhagde hone lage. Lekin hum dono samjhota karne lage. Lekin meri biwi ko mere ghar rehna pasand nahi, kabhi bhi unke ammi use phone pe call karte hai aur bulalete hai, agar mai mana karron to mere saath ladh ne laghte hai. Kehte hai ki mujhe bhejna hi hoga . Allah ki marzi se meri biwi pregnant hui. Aur jab se pregnant hue meri biwi mere sasural mein hi hain.Wo mere maa baap ki kidmat karne se mana kari aur mere saath rehne si bhi. Kehti hai mai mere maa baap ke ghar khush hoon. Aur uske maa baap bhi use kuch nahi kehte aur kehte hai ki hamari beti hamara ghar kush hai to aap ko kya problem hai. Meri shaadi hue 14 mahine hi hue, lekin in 14 mehinoo mai meri biwi mere saath 4 din, 10 din, 15 din kar ke mere saath sirf 2 ya 3 mehine he mere saath hai, Aisa hai ki husband ka ghar sasural aur useke maa ka ghar husband ka. Jab wo 6th month pregnant thi wo boli mai abb mere maa ke ghar jaarahi hoon aur wapus delivery ke 40 din baad hi laut aaongi. Se sun kar na mai kush tha na mere maaa baap. Meri maa ko bahut ghussa aya aur meri biwi ko gaali dene lagi. Legin meri biwi nahi suni aur mai use lekar uske ghar chod aaya. Ek mahina nai mai uske ghar gaya nai hi phone kiya, nahi meri biwi ne mujhe call kiya. Ek mahine ke baad jab mai wapus gaya to wo aane se mana kardi. mai naraz ho kar ghar wapus aagaya. Phir ek din mai uske ghar gaya to wo aur uski maa ghar ka darwaza babdh karliya. mai chillane laga ki darwaza kholo, tab meri biwi ne mujhe kaha ki kisne tumhe bulaya jao yaha se. mai phir naraz, dil dukha ke mera wapus aagaya. Phir mai ek din use milne gaya ye sooch ke ki ye meri biwi hai mai use mohabbat karta hoon. Lekin uske baap ne mujhe maarne aaye aur kehne lage ki ghar se nikal jao. Na hi meri biwi boli ke tum to muje milne aaye hoo.Uske baap ne kaha ki meri beti tumhare saath kush nahi hai mujhe tumhare ghar waloon se baath karni hai. Maine kaha ki theek hai. lekin wo nai aaye. Mai aur mere paapa kai martaba une bulaye baat karne keliye. Likin mere sasur taal te rahe aur ek din kaha ki tumhare masjid mai ek arzee hai ja ke dekh lo. Hum dekhe to wo khule ki arzee thi.Mai aur mere maa baap pareshaan hogae. Phir hum log masjid ki commitee pe gaye to wo kehte hai ki use khula khubul na hi hoga.Meri beti usse khush nai hai aur na hee uske maa baap se. Aur abb ye mujhe bahut force kar raha hai ki mai delivery se pehle khula khubul loon. 10-15 din mein uski delivery hai lekin mere sasur kehte hai ki mai usse se pehle accept karloon. Aur kehte hai ki delivery ke 2 din baad apna baccha lelo. Aur kehte hai ki meri biwi se baat bhi nai karne dega. Mere masjid commitee waloon ne kaha ki ye galat baat hai use uske biwi se milne do. lekin wo nahi maaan raha. Mai meri biwi se bahut mohabbat karta hoon aur jeena chahata hoon. Aur abb to baacha bhi aane wala hai 10-15 din mein. MAi abb kya karoon? Mere biwi ka phone bhi OFF hai, Khule ke arzee pe mere biwi ke dastakhat bhi hai.Mai use chod na nai chahata, mai uske saath zindagi karna chahata hoon. Wo ek nahi do zindagi barbaad kar na chahte hai mai aur mera baccha. Wo mujh se meri biwi alag karna chahate hai aur bacche se apni maa. Mujhe kuch samaj nahi aaraha hai, theek se khana nai kha pa raha hoon, na theek se soo pa raha hoon, mai pagal ho raha hoon. Kya mai khule ko reject karsakta hoon? Kya wo khula le sakte hai? Mai meri biwi ko baat karsakta hoon? Kya wo chote chote problems pe khula le sakte hai. Allah behtar jaanta hai ki mai uske khane, kapde, shopping, ghumna, sab khayal rakha hai. Kya shariyat is khule ko maan sakte hai? kya mai mere baghair wo khula lesakte hai? ye kyon mujhe force kar rahe hai deleviry se pehle? Mai jaanta hoon ki mujhe dusri biwi mil sakti hai lekin mai isse bahut mohabbat karta hoon aur khoona nai chahata. Muhje aap bataeye ki mai kya karron? Mai aur mere maa baap bahut hi pareshan hai. Aur mere bacche ka bhi sawal hai. inn taamaam cheez ko rakte hue mujhe aap batao ki mai kya karron. Jald se jald please mujhe batao. Mere paas waqt bahut kam hai. Jazakallah. Answer 8083 salaam mufti sahaib.mujhr aap se ye puchna hai k jab husband and wife janabat karty hain to kyaa foran ghusal karna laazmi hai? agar aisa hai tou kyun plz zara wazahat se ekplane karein. aur mujhee ye batayee plz k ye site aehly sunnat hai ya aehly tashi?plz jawab zaroor deejye ga. jazak allah Answer 8020 AsalamoAlikum janab mufti sahab.janab ky hamal bawi ko 8th month main humbistari karna jaiz hai? Answer 7871 As-salamolakum Mufti sahab.., Maira mesla ye hai k maira nikah ho gaya hai or main apnay shoher ke dosre beve hon, shadi k bad ab mairay shoher ka kehna ye hai k wo abhe do gharon ke zimaydariya nahen nibhan suktay main abhe apnay waldain k gher he rehte hon mairay shoher mujhay aik rupya bhe naheen daytay lakin hamare azdawaje zindage shrow ho chuke hai main un ka haq pora ada ker rahe hon or wo bhe jub chahtay hain apna huq mujhsay laylaytay hain a c sorut main mujhay kia kerna chaiy or mairay shoher k liye kia hukum hai kia mairay shoher per es waja say koe parayshane to naheen a ye ge. Answer 7826 AS SALAM-O-ALAIKUM... meri shaadi 2 months baad hai.mujhe yeh poochna hai k kia husband shaadi waali raat apni biwi k saath jo chahay ker sakta hai maslan... 1.kia woh us k puray jism ko dekh sakta hai ya nahi. 2.kia woh us k nipples ko apnay mu se laga sakta hai ya nahi. 3.apni wife ko kis tarah check ker sakta hai k woh PAKEEZA(virgin) hai. 4.kia woh olaad hanay k baad apni wife k doodh ko pi sakta hai ya nahi. thank u Answer 7800 meri biwi kise aur ko chahti hai aut main apni biwi ko kia us ke dil main pyar jaga sakta huin plz help me Answer 7789 as salaam u alikum read in urdu mera sawal hai k agar ghalti se biwi(wife) ka doodh(milk) moon(mouth) main chala jaye to kya karna chahae is ka jaldi bata dain alllah aap par rehmat kare ishfaq ghulam nabi Answer 7768 Asalam_0_alikum muti sahib, mara ap sa sawal ya haa ka mara husband bahoot hi choti choti batoo ma chadpada pan dakata haa aur mara parents ko aur mari sister ko gali galoch karta haa jas sa ma chad kar apna ap ko mar jati hoo gusa ki halat ma bahoot jawab da jati hoo . moja bataya ya jawab dana jaiz ha najaiz Answer 7638 AOA Some one told me when husband kiss his wife hands (or other face etc) or wife kiss her husband hands (or other face etc) they get a sawab and nikiyah IS IT TRUE if yes can you provide me the detail of how much nikiyah they get thanks Answer 7633 AssalamuAlikum Mufti Sahab, I want to know, if husband wife did sex during fasting, and at that time none of them was clear for this serious issue, now what they have to do for kafara of this sin? Please let me know so Allah SubhaHuWatala keeps us on right path in future. I am waiting for your response Answer 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19

Q.No.	Question	Answer
19	Shobat kar nay ka right trika kya ? Aur kis trah karna chahiy	Answer
49	ASAK AGAR SHOHAR KOI KUFRIYAA KALIMAA BAK DETA HAI JAISE THIK HAI MUJK AZAABE KABR HONGA MAI DEKH LOONGA YA BARDASHT KAR LOONGA, YANI KABR YA KAYAMAT KE AZAAB KO HALKA SAMAJHTA HAI, AB BIWI UOSE SAMJHATI HAI KI YEH KUFRIYA KALIMA THA AAP TAJDEEDE EIMAAN BHI KAR LEIN AUR TAJDEEDE NIKAH BHI MAGAR VOH NAHI SUNTAA, EIS CONDITION MEIN BIWI KYA KARE	Answer
61	KYA FERMATE HAIN ULMAI DEEN WO MUFTIYAN E SHARA E MATEEN;; ZAID NE BIWI KO BEHEN/MAA KEH DIYA TAB KYA HUKM HAI?	Answer
114	huzoor-e-waala poochna yeh hai ke biwi agar hamal say ho too mubashirat kab tak ki ja sakti hai???	Answer
149	assalamualikum.shadi ke baad biwi se kis tarah humbistari karna iske mukammal details wali ahlesunnat ke kitaab ke naam batayiye.	Answer
161	Aslam-o-Aleekum I hope you are fine.I am Nouman from Qatar. Mufti sahib my wife is separate from 18 month because she said me you take your home separate other wise you give me divorce but i want live with my parents because i am only 1 son of my parents.before she is living here like this 1 or 2 months here and 8 months go to her parents home. my marriage is now going on 5 year i have two beautiful son.please tell me best solution about this.she live with me and my parents.	Answer
206	KYA FERMATE HAI ULMAI DEEN WO MUFTIYANE SHARA MATEEN; HAMAL SAQT KARNA JAIZ HAI YA NAHI? HAI TAB KITNI MUDDAT K ANDAR HAMAL SAQT KIYA JASAKTA HAI? i PILL / UNWATED 72(HAMAL SAQT KARNE KI TAB)WAGHAIRA KA ISTELAM KAISA HAI??	Answer
208	agar koi bayroon-e-mulk rehta hai apni family ke sath aur bacha honay par khawand apni biwi ko kahy ke maine apny bachay ya bachi ki tarbiat apny mulk mein karni hai is mulk mein nahi karna chahta aur biwi kahay ke nahi maine nahi jana jab tak app bhi sath na chalein yeh mulk chorr kar. jabke waha ja kar koi job ka silsila na banta hoo. khawand kahay ke tum chali jaon main 1-2 months mein chakkar laga liya karon ga? aur koi silsila ban janay par In Sha ALLAH main bhi aa jaon ga kuch arsa mein. is silsila mein shariat ka kya hukum hai. jawab inayat farma dein. Jazak Allah Khair	Answer
294	huzoor yeh irshad farmaiye ke pedayesh ke kitni deir baad hambistri kar saktay hain? shariyat mein is mutalliq koi hukum ???	Answer
578	ASSLAM O ALAIKUM MAULANA SAHAB MENE AUR MERE SHAUHAR NE HAIZ MAIN HUM BISTRI KAR LI KYUN KE MENE CHECK KIYA THA PAR TAB NAHI THI NJANEE PHIR KAISE ITNI TAIZ HO GAI MERI ADAT KE ILAWA HI HAIZ ITNE DINO SE KHATAM NAI HO RAHA AP HUMEN BTAYE HUM AB KYA KAREIN?	Answer
627	Kya biwi se sohbat karte waqak condom ka istemal kar sakte hai	Answer
862	Aeyame Haiz Main Agar Shuhar Ko Shahwat Aa Jae To Kia Bivi Apne Hath Se Shuhar Ka Pani Nikal Sakti Hay, Aur Shuhar Ka Irade Se Aesa Karna Kia Jaez Hay.	Answer
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